It would be like dating a toddler who would throw a fit if you refused to buy her something from the toy store. You don’t want to be with a girl who is always dependent on your attention and time.
You need to be able to live your own life outside of the relationship as well.
You can’t afford to be waiting on her head to foot.
She can’t be chatting it up with other men and making some flirtatious advances to them. You’re just asking for trouble and unnecessary stress whenever you do so.
However, I wouldn’t write this if I didn’t think it was true.
I wouldn’t write this if I didn’t experience trying and failing to date these kinds of people.
Next thing you know, you’re bored with doing all the mental work of managing her life for her… In fact, you’ll be her next excuse for why things are going so horribly wrong in her life. She might have a mighty fine look and smile, but she’s also got quite a demeanor to go with those assets…
With all due respect, we, the women, accept the fact that a ‘perfect guy’ is a myth however, we all fantasize to choose our soul mate who is close to the descriptions we have in mind. Right from the horde of all types of men may prove grueling.