Making Sense of an Attraction to a Married Man Having a Secret Love Affair Community Q&A Loving the married man. This is for the women who love their married men and need positive guidance and support to work through their issues. No matter what side of the fence you’re on both can agree that this is a very controversial and moralistically sensitive topic. The touch of a hand, an innocent conversation, a glance?But when the man with whom you're involved is part of another couple, someone else's husband, then the challenge and unpredictability can make your life a messy, unhappy waiting game that you will rarely win.The woman who is in love with a married man lives a life that, for the most part, is shrouded in secrecy.They often compensate by re-strengthening the relationship with the wife and strongly believe they can keep their affairs under the wraps.Men who have an affair are like jackals, who seek pleasure despite the significant risk.
Cheating men are confident that they wont get caught if they take necessary precautions.The love affair with the married man starts with a man who married for the wrong reasons and thus never truly felt fulfilled in his commitment to the wife.They probably have kids together and that is the only bond they share.The cycle of the love affair with a married man almost always ends in broken hearts, hurt, and wasted time.Sure you have those once in a million times where the man actually leaves his wife for another, but for the most part, it is a script for adultery disaster.