" Puke.) But mostly, it's the fact that he's your first.

Not necessarily just sexually, but myriad other ways, too: The first guy you watch with, the guy who buys you a copy of Pink Floyd's "Dark Side of The Moon," the first one in the passenger's seat as soon as you get your learner's permit...

If you come to know of some younger cool guy through some friend, try to approach him through indirect ways such that he does not feel as you are waiting to hunt him down.

Or it is better if you remain casual and wait for him to propose first.

And what a man your own age may view as "baggage," a younger guy sees as fascinating territory you've traveled -- and you're willing to share.

Think of all the things you two can discuss -- and you can take the lead and enjoy being the mentor.

Being the older, wiser man is a power trip for him.

And that's all about , the said power trip he is getting off on should be overt.

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