Partly because I was terrified of losing her, but also because I wanted to see just how it would play out.I’d spent all my time up until that point in exclusive, monogamous relationships and thought that was the way to go.After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. What the cat said..more realistically...yeah, I think guys are more clueless about these things (in general).Most women have that instinct they can tell if their man has another woman in their life. If you know your woman very well then any slight change in her behavior should raise an eyebrow. Might also be an ego thing going on plus A LOT more women tend to get cheated on it seems so I think they have heard the stories from their girlfriends and when the symptoms start to show up they might have an "ah ha! i agree that men don't see it as clearly as women do.That she is seeing you every weekend demonstrates that she has few opportunities to pick up other men, particularly if she is busy at work during the week.She may not want a serious relationship, but she does want a stable friends with benefits situation and has little free time to pursue other men. Once you have taken the boyfriend role, chances are she is not juggling you alongside others.“I don’t want this to be exclusive…” was the last thing I wanted to hear. “It’s not that there’s anything wrong with you, it’s just that I don’t want to get into a relationship.” Sure, that made all the difference. I’d never been in that situation before and it was going to be interesting.She was beautiful, intelligent, funny, cool, and a sexual dynamo. Despite what my original misgivings, it turned out to be a smart decision.
if not her saying that may just be a way to keep the relationship from moving to fast.We talked for a few weeks on the phone for many hours a night before we met. I've never had this issue when dating someone else who was also dating around. No, you should not ask her about dating other people. The fact is, there is nothing wrong with her dating other people until she has committed to someone and you should be doing the same.Seeing the other side of the coin showed me that letting the girls you’re dating see other guys was not only OK, but actually had a lot of benefits.There are too many to cover here, but here are the 4 top reasons why you MUST encourage the girls you’re dating to see other guys: Allowing her to see other guys gives you the space to see other girls.